Tuesday, November 13, 2012

The Pursuit of Happiness


“You have a duty to protect you dream.
People will say you cannot achieve your dream simply because they cannot achieve theirs.
Believe in yourself.”


(I am paraphrasing Will Smith’s character in the film "The Pursuit of Hapiness" as he talks to his 5-yr old kid)

It was a wet November 8, and on that day, the graduation of 22 instructors from 6 schools in the province of Sorsogon was scheduled at 2PM. My institution was the venue, as it had been for the past 3 weeks of training, for the Ph Tesda’s TMC (Trainer’s Methodology Course), a requirement for keeping one’s capacity to teach in tertiary level.

I had made a deliberate effort to take it slow that rainy morning, owing to the fact that the day seems to mark the end of a very demanding month of academic activities for six of my school’s staff.

Two days earlier a panel of 3 TMC Assessors had arrived from Manila to pass judgement on those who took the course. I have seen the participants work morning till night to pass assessment. This is already the 4th week, a continuum of the 3-week TMC training proper during the previous month.

The past month of October was downright grueling. My staff also spent 2 of the last 4 days of the month taking the Comprehensive Exams (Compre) for their graduate course in MSIT. On 10.28.12 two examiners from Bulacan State University arrived in the evening from the airport to administer the tests for 10 subjects over 2 days.

That evening, even as dinner was cordial, what followed was unbelievable. Although they reviewed on and off for the past 2 months, my staff still reviewed through the night, finishing at 5AM. Exams are set for 8AM. They came late, as expected.

Tests for 6 subjects started at 9AM. It ran straight for 6 hours until 3PM, and lunch was served inside while taking the tests. The second day was worse, we lost all concept of time, and the examiners had to be rushed to the airport in the afternoon. Thank God the plane was late and they were the last 2 passengers to be boarded.

But now it is November 8 and I am in front of the TV watching cable of “The Pursuit of Happiness” starring Will Smith. The character of the story was in ‘desperation mode’. His wife left him because he could not make both ends meet. He is a salesman for a high-end scanner that he sells to doctors. After struggling with this job, he decides to change careers to be a finance management broker. But this entails being an intern for 6 months without pay. Only 20 interns are to be taken in and only one among them will be chosen. He and his kid ends lining up in welfare homes just to spend nights.

How Will Smith’s character hustled his way over the numerous challenges amid misfortune is awesome. It made me think of the backbreaking 1 month that I had just experienced and it all seemed frivolous. The end of the movie came in one word - “Come!” as he was ushered in to the board room. The boss tells him: “This is your last day.”

In the next scene the boss also tells him: “Tomorrow is your first day as a broker.”

There was no funfare or rolling of drums when success came. It came quietly as Will Smith stepped out of the boardroom, tears in his eyes. A breath of fresh air dispels so much pain. To what extent will you pursue a dream?

In my head I kept hearing success’s deafening voice: “You have a duty to protect you dream.” And boy did he! I wish all of us will, too. Cheers!

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